Cheating sucks! And I should know – I’ve been cheated on quite a few times in my life. It’s just a pain in the ass. You put your trust in someone and they betray it, and often not just once but MULTIPLE times, over a period of weeks, months or even years. Although I’m in a relationship I’m confident is trustworthy at the moment, I decided a while ago that I wasn’t going to let a cheating partner get me down ever again. That’s why I went looking for answers and the reason I’m writing this review.

I found a great guide, called BeatingCheating, that for once doesn’t just recommended using a private investigator, or tell you a bunch of obvious stuff you could have thought up yourself.

I began reading this guide and quickly realized that it was, or the author (Jim Walthby) was an absolute authority on the subject. He covers every possible important angle relating to the subject of infidelity, including what signs to look for, how to question and confront a cheating partner, how to cope with being cheated on and come out of the whole thing on top, the list goes on.

Before buying the guide I was most worried about not knowing the truth of whether my partner was cheating on me like the others have done to me in the past. Then, once I’d finished reading it, I realised that the guide actually TAUGHT ME how to find the answers myself, step-by-step, easy and stress-free…the only way you can truly uncover the truth regarding a suspicious husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend.

Price: $39.95

Website: beatingcheating.com

Have you ever wondered whether your partner or lover has ever cheated on you online?

It’s completely normal to be curious and actually very important to be sure.

This can be a very serious matter that requires plenty of precaution. Approach this with care.

You should be aware that the internet is growing at such a rapid pace that sites specifically dedicated to helping married couples land an outside affair are springing up. This is shocking but true.

The bad thing about this for couples is that this gives their partner far more options to find something outside of their relationships if they so wish. Imagine what could be happening over cyberspace behind close doors or at his or her work.

I am going to reveal to you a few sites that people will frequent when trying to cheat on the internet.

>> Craigslist Personals
>> Myspace Dating
>> AdultFriendFinder

That’s only the tip of the iceberg….

After extensive undercover research and helping many, many clients … one underground infidelity expert shows that these have been where a lot of not-so-innocent flirting takes place.

So I genuinely believe that anyone who has a hint of suspicion in this matter be aware of this potential activity. However, with this in mind, approach it extremely lightly because you don’t want to hurt the relationship in any way.

If you can check their email account, it will be wise to do a message history search for those sites to see if there are messages coming from those places. For example, Gmail always has these messages archived or saved even if he deletes them.

Another one of the easiest ways to recognize a red flag is to mention a story about how people use these sites for meeting. It can be some interesting article or news about Craigslist or Myspace for example. Just something indirect is totally fine.

An easy-to-follow way would be to search for bizarre Myspace stories and find something that would be interesting to mention. There are so many just sitting on the internet waiting for you to find. I’d focus on one where it involves relationships or infidelity so it becomes a subconscious reminder.

Watch closely for any hint or discomfort that appears as this conversation comes up. If you know your partner on an intimate level, you should have a finger on what defines uncomfortable body language.

That’s a safe start.

Price: $29.00

Website: cheatsweeper.com

Have you ever noticed that when it comes to OTHER peoples relationships, everyone suddenly turns into Dick Tracy?

Just tell them what’s going on in someone else’s relationship and they will instantly roll their eyes and say “well she’s cheating on him” or “he’s screwing someone else”.

A funny thing happens though when it comes to your own relationships. People go from being “super detective” to being deaf, dumb and blind.

The reason for this is they lack OBJECTIVITY.

They cannot look at their own relationships with any objectivity. They can spot someone in another relationship cheating from a mile away, but can’t do the same with their own.

And this is the 3rd notorious mistake people make when they think they’re being cheated on.

You absolutely must distance yourself from your relationship — examine the facts — and add everything up from there.

This is also known as becoming emotionally detached.

Let me put it to you this way.

Think back to one of the happiest periods in your life — a time where a lot of things seemed to be going right.

Now, if during that time one of your friends had come to you to “lean on your shoulder” about some relationship problems they were having (and as it turns out their problems are identical to what you’re now going through), what would your thoughts have been?

Not what are your thoughts right now, but what would your thoughts have been about this during that happy period in your life.

You probably would have a different opinion about your relationship back then you do now.

You see, right now you don’t have any clarity, any objectivity.

But you need to get it right now — and bad.

Try to look at your relationship as if it were someone else’s. It’s not easy to do, but everyone has the ability to do it.

Do it, and you’ll probably be surprised at what you come up with.

Would you like even more information on how to catch a cheating lover?

Price: $39.95

Website: catchacheat.com

Online author Sarah Paul is a dating and relatonships author, who has also turned her talents into helping people find proof of their partner cheating, an ever useful tool in modern relationships. Her How to Catch a Cheating Spouse course is an established and time-tested product that has been selling online successfully for a number of years:

With the advent of internet dating, cellphones and personal organizers, it comes as no surprise that spouses are offered more opportunity and anonymity when choosing to cheat on their partner. This in turn makes it difficult for frustrated spouses to find the proof and put to rest the fears and demons they are experiencing.

At first glance, I was impressed by what I received. For an initial outlay of $37.00, I wasn’t expecting much. So I was delighted to find that my purchase got me not only two ebooks, but a bonus tracking software package that usually retails for $99!

The cheating spouse main ebook was what impressed me at first. 126 pages of material, which was much more than I had anticipated from an ebook. Sarah sure knows how to deliver the goods, and I felt quite confident that I would receive some great advice and information, which covers points from behavioral changes, to covert surveillance, to detecting lies, accidental slip-ups, finances, and some thought-provoking facts and figures to put all this behavior in context.

A really cool bonus for those of you that are a little less computer savvy is the “Spy Gadgets & Surveillance Made Easy” bonus book. If you have limited knowledge of the computer or internet, this book is a great way to get you up to speed on what your spouse is doing on the computer and how to track it. It teaches both basic and advanced monitoring skills, as well as telephone monitoring, room and audio monitoring, video surveillance, webcam and spy cam, as well as a number of other tracking systems and chemical tests.

And if that wasn’t enough, Sarah has generously decided to throw in Sherlock Pro, a computer tracking software package. You can record keystrokes, websites visited, and screencaps, and have the benefit of having the results emailed to you. It lacks some of the features of more highly priced tracking applications, but for a free bonus it’s pretty comprehensive and gives some good results.

And if there are any lingering doubts or questions, Sarah offers a free consultation with a member of the team. This is proof that she goes one step further than the rest to help you catch your cheating spouse!

For a one-time payment of $37.00 this How to Catch a Cheating Spouse package really delivers everything it promises. For frustrated spouses who want to get the truth and put and end to the doubt and despair of not knowing, I would recommend this course as a valuable first step.

Price: $37.00

Website: catchspousecheating.com